3 Ways to Trust Yourself Again

                 

trust jumpWhile working with a client this week she said “I wish I could work with you every day”.  I smiled as she clearly meant it as a compliment to what I helped her accomplish.  We had just finished working on building her first packing list for an upcoming extended trip.  She was finally feeling the pressure of last minute packing fading away.  I was excited for her and at the same time curious about her comment.  I believe our relationship is such that she values my expertise and trusts I am supporting her just as she needs it.  Still I wondered “is she learning to trust herself through our work together?”  And if not how can I help her regain that trust?

It happens to us all.  As we change our priorities, learn something new, have to change or do something differently, we may no longer feel in complete control. Though we have the courage to start we may not know how to keep going.  We don’t trust ourselves to sit in that uncomfortable moment alone.  I reassured my client that she in a good place and gave her 3 pieces of advice to regain her own trust.

1. Keep practicing

Those who are most proficient at their profession, hobby, sport or happiness use their skills often.  If you don’t have them ask get help from someone willing to teach you.  Practice breeds confidence.  Confidence renews courage that can power you to try again.  You will get better with practice.  

2. Look for the learning

Don’t get stuck on what didn’t go well.  Instead, look for the a-ha moments in your organizing experiences and ask yourself what did I learn.  You can find out about yourself, your abilities, your drivers for moving forward.  Imagine what you will be able to do next?

3. Celebrate your success 

As you are more aware of those learnings and see the positive results, celebrate.  Be inspired by the things that you do know and appreciate the person you are becoming– someone you can trust to help with your organizing needs.        

The tension that comes with learning new skills and then trusting yourself to use them takes some time to ease.  That time can be well spent in practicing the very thing that unsettles you. While working the process you learn by doing, recognize success and relearn how to trust yourself. 

How have you learned to trust yourself recently?  Post a comment below!

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Happy New Year

Happy New Year!!! I’m sure you’ve heard this greeting so many times the past couple of days that you echo a response automatically. Before you reply to me I ask that you just for a minute to reflect that you have officially reached the end of what was and the beginning of what can be…

How was last year? Did you transition your kindergartner to a working homework space, make room for the new office you needed, get that email under control, or have enough time to really enjoy your family and friends?

What about this year? You’ve listened to everyone else’s reasons and resolutions to make some changes. Have you thought about what is motivating you to improve your situation? Take another minute to think and write down your motivations. Then write down just one organizing goal.

Getting organized can support you
• Having a space function like you want
• Gaining efficient access to the information that supports the work you need to do and
• Finding time for the things you want to do.

There is no time like right now to start getting organized. January is GO (Get Organized) month and many product and service companies, including A Taylored Space, will be showcasing what they offer to help you achieve your goal. Start with the one goal, complete it and celebrate it. Then define and work on another goal. You don’t have to do everything at once. And now you have a whole year ahead of you to work on making the changes that can create your happy new space, happy new schedule, happy new life!

Wishing you all the best this new year: Happy Organizing!
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